A small treat for the close ones,and thus we shared our happiness.
21 years ago,2 people from two different system and different place having different attitudes tied the knot.Marriage as such is one of God's greatest creation(i mean the whole process,i wonder if it was God who really taught how a man and woman should live).Whatever be the case,life becomes all the more responsible and interesting after 2 people from the opposite sex join hands.
I have always wondered on how our parents spend decades together without any tiredness and boredom of having to live with the same person for such a long time,there is an excuse for the people who got along through a love marriage because they know each other well before the marriage.I respect my parents the most for that,not just my parents but every couple who have successfully completed at least 2 decades of living together,it is not an easy ask for sure.
That was when i started to think the reason behind them living together without getting bored.I got an answer,which might seem very much irrelevant for many of you out there.I feel that the reason why God gave human beings the ability to reproduce would be to keep the husband and wife more interested in their relationship(there are more reasons too,i just say that this might be one of them).Just think this way,it takes at least 10 months for the new born to come into real world.So that gap of 10 months would be the 1st interval for them,so after that 10 months their interest goes to their child,and for the next almost 2 years the child will have the priority.Thus for the 1st 3 years the couple are happy and content.
Slowly the child will start loving his parents,and now the family is back to business and the chain which used to be just between the husband and wife takes a new turn and becomes husband-child-wife or wife-child-husband with the child acting as the moderator and the reason behind the couple loving each other.This process keeps repeating and that makes the bond between the couple stronger with their baby being the bondage.This never means that our parents stop loving each other anyway but its just that they don't get bored of living with the same person all these days.
That way i am happy to know that myself and my brother have played my role in the integration among my parents.They need you for emotional support,remember when we broke into tears at school or when we fell down trying to walk we always looked up to our parents to console us.So now it is slowly time to give back,and be a shoulder for them.
Hope you be a shoulder of support for your parents.They have struggled hard to bring us here where we are.
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